Well, it's Christmas time and I was given the cause last night by having the time to chat with a diamond, among others, so I pulled the trigger.
There are some wonderful people out there - embrace them.
Several years ago, while on a drive with an uncle of mine, the song People, sung by Barbra Streisand, was playing and just after the line from the song, "People who need people are the luckiest people in the world." had played, he said, "Well, that's a bunch of shit."
This was the first time I had spent any one-on-one time with this man who I admire and respect. Not a recluse, but he was the one who spent very little time with the family. He's not the life of the party, but he is well educated, both institutionally and self-taught, always searching for and soaking up information, discernibly though - no idiot, by any means. He can be very engaging one-on-one.
I had just gotten to know my uncle more in this 20 minute car ride than I had in over 30 years. I learned another side of him during this time - he has a sense of humor and this slight cynicism I missed somewhere during those other years, perhaps because we were always in family settings and I never had had that one-on-one time with my uncle.
After finally getting to know him a little better, I appreciated his "That's a bunch of shit." line, but no one else would if you knew his siblings, particularly, my father and his brother. They, we, are people-persons, sometimes to a fault, if there be such a thing.